Came across via Ackerman. I thoroughly enjoyed th...

2008-05-02T17:10:00.000-04:00

Came across via Ackerman. I thoroughly enjoyed this post. Sorry to hear about your sister passing away.

First, I come from the perspective of a state school where the Greek system isn’t the only thing in town, but certainly one of the top drawers in the social scene. I was in a fraternity with a reputation for “inspiration,” if you get my drift.

The pledge process, in my opinion, is what makes brothers so close. The socials, Greek Weeks, events, etc. are great experiences that cement a friendship. However, pledging provides the necessary environment for a bond to form that definitely will never be broken. It is no doubt different with sororities.

In a fraternity, the philosophy of tearing someone down, I would argue, is essential if you want the feeling you get with a true brotherhood. Of course, learning about traditions dating back pre-WWII serves its purpose and can be an inspiring experience, if done right. But, what many outsiders might deem demoralizing (rightfully so), forces pledges to rely on their fellow pledge brothers and to work as a team. This helps create closeness between them that years later cannot be broken, even when people drift apart.

Also, I can’t deny that anytime I face a difficult challenge, I think back to when I pledged (so and so) and was able to get through that. It can provide motivation to battle through future obstacles. I imagine it is a similar mentality to boot camp. A true test of character comes when someone pushes you harder than you have ever been pushed before, if you rise above it, you will be stronger.

Besides, pledging is the most fun you never want to have again.

Well said.

2008-04-30T21:59:00.000-04:00

Well said.

Comments on blogs t r e t c h: My Greek Experience

Came across via Ackerman. I thoroughly enjoyed th...

Well said.